206 / A Better Way to Define Success with Stella Grizont

Clarity of your vision and values is key to avoiding the comparison trap. Knowing your vision sets you free to make choices that genuinely support your happiness and fulfillment.

The thing with comparison is that we look outside of ourselves to gauge where we stand. So, the way to avoid entering this defeating game is to put your blinders on and look inward. What does your finish like look like? It’s a vision of you being your most alive, joyful, energized, peaceful, fulfilled YOU.

Instead of comparing yourself to others, compare yourself to your own vision of how you (not your mom, friends, boss, or society) want to be.

Listen to my full conversation with Nicole Kalil on her This Is Woman’s Work podcast here or wherever you listen to podcasts